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How To Eliminate Jealousy In The Workplace?

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WorkplaceJealousyPsychology

Nowadays, many people in the workplace are in a state of mind who is jealous, jealous, and hated when compared with their own good people. Then they start complaining, complaining about the objective environment, complaining others and damaging their mindset.

At the same time, some people turn this jealousy into a driving force, motivate themselves to make continuous efforts, and ultimately surpass those who are jealous.

Do you work hard in the workplace, the former or the latter? When you encounter some problems in the workplace, or someone's skilled working skills and excellent ability make you feel jealous and jealous, what do you do?

What kind of people are more likely to produce jealousy?

  

Self abasement

Self abased people tend to feel like others.

disparity

It has also failed to bring its potential into full play.

Once a colleague who is equal to his level is successful, it is easy to be jealous.

Character anxiety: this part of people will not only worry too much about the future, but also pay too much attention to their immediate interests.

Weak self consciousness: because of lack of adequate understanding of oneself, and less understanding of their strengths and weaknesses, it is easy to produce blind jealousy.

A lack of trust and sense of security for the surrounding environment: when there is no trust relationship with colleagues, jealousy is also easily generated before interests.

  

Overcome oneself

Jealousy

1, improve moral cultivation and connotation.

Broaden your mind, see differences between individuals, and learn to accept, respect and appreciate this personality difference.

A hundred flowers in the garden can attract more visitors to visit. If there is only one flower, it will make the garden pale.

At the same time, the good things do not blindly account for yourself, to learn to change the thinking, not only your own needs and deprived of the needs of others.

2. Look for the gap.

Where a person is jealous means his inferiority complex, which means where his self-esteem is, which means what he is likely to pursue.

Therefore, when the envy, jealousy and hatred of others are sprouting, they should analyze their situation objectively and calmly, seriously reflect on the advantages of others, what the reasons for this advantage are, what they need to do to achieve that level, pay attention to enriching their knowledge and improving their own abilities, rather than pulling others down due to psychological imbalance.

3, vent your emotions in a proper way.

We should be good at seeing our own strengths and discovering our potential. First we should learn to respect ourselves, love ourselves and accept ourselves.

Through a proper way to vent bad emotions, such as family members and trusted friends to confide, tell trouble, through sports to eliminate negative emotions.

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